People are looking for people to say things to just make them feel good….not the truth. They offer us excuses we can use to cover up sin. God uses scripture to tell you the truth. The Bible says the scripture is like a sword. It can cut sometimes but its only to make you better and exhault you not for us to use as our pity party. If you want answers go to the one who will tell you the truth and not sugarcoat things.
Have a Blessed Day in the Lord.