Lord, Forgive Me, I need my blog friends to pray or give advice

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pardtx0tx959tx1918tx2877tx3836tx4795tx5754tx6713tx7672tx8631f1fs20 Oh Lord forgive me where my heart is right now concerning my son. Im about at my whits end, hes making me have gray hairs and having sleepless nights just trying to figure out where I have went wrong. Ok, here goes, Im going to just vent maybe Ill feel better. Ive been holding some resentment and bitterness towards Dakota because hes getting cocky, coniving, and sneaky. He gets in no hurry when it comes to school or worksheets, he lied big time yesterday about doing his  homework(careful planning on his part), he has to have me beside him all the time while hes doing papers, its like he cant do them for himself, he gets so frustrated when he the homework he has to do, and it takes him forever to get something done. Ive tried alot of suggestions and tried to do things different, only thing is though Im constantly having to change things. He gets a bad attitude after a while. Ive tried encouragement, lessons from the bible, punishment, and everything is getting old. Lord help me but public school has come to mind several times. Hes got to learn to do some things for himself before next year, because Ive got to spend alot of time next year with Dallas when he starts school. Dakota really lacks self motivation. I dont, I push myself to just dust the house sometimes. I have spent many night just praying over him and asking God to help me. Im all out of ideas  and Im open to suggestions that anyone has. If it was something that he wanted to do like go to football practice boy hes all gung ho he beats you to the truck and yelling at you to hurry up. Go figure. He really doesnt enjoy school that much. Hes got two book reports to do and hes not enjoying that either, He could careless about applying himself to improve. I  know I am suppose to be there to teach and help, but when will it finally click that he realizes he can do this for himself. Ive tried weaning him off me(ha) but he just gets frustrated when I leave him to do something. I feel sorry for Dallas just sitting somewhere playing all by himself and Im helping Dakota do something that  he already knows how to do.
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Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok now that Ive gotten that off my chest, were getting ready to go to church, where I need refreshed in my soul. Please pray for me and Dakota, I love to be with my children and teach them but I do expect a little respect and improvement if I have to take it from their little hides. Ha!
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God Bless everyone
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About 4dfarms

I am a wife to an amazingly dedicated, devoted, and loyal husband whom God sent to me. I am a mother to two wonderful boys to whom I'd give my life for. Around here we have homeschooled, we farm, garden, hunt, fish and anything else we want to do. Although I do have Rheumatoid Arthritis. Sometimes its hard for me to keep up. If it was not for my husband and two boys, I could not do some of what I do. They really do help me alot. We work together as a team in my home. We try our best to train up our children in the fear and admonition of the Lord. Yea, they slip sometimes and correction has to be made. Thats life. I want so badly to be just like the Proverbs 31 woman. My grandmother did an awesome job of it and Id like to fill her shoes.
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2 Responses to Lord, Forgive Me, I need my blog friends to pray or give advice

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    pardtx0tx959tx1918tx2877tx3836tx4795tx5754tx6713tx7672tx8631f1fs20 Tracy,par
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    I swear that you just described my Ashley. I know what you are going through, and I am sorry to say that I don't have an answer for you. I had a horrible day with Ash in school yesterday. Half of the time I think she's just being lazy, but then other times I wonder if there isn't some learning disability involved. I don't know. I do know that I pray a lot. I'm not a very fun and creative teacher. I think a lot of her problem is me. You're not the only one that has thought of the public school route. I really don't think she'd make it there though. At least she's getting a good biblical, moral upbringing. Hopefully a little of the academic part is sinking in too. I know that she is advanced compared to her cousins who attend the public schools. This is what keeps mine at home. You are probably doing a lot better than you think. Be encouraged and know that I am praying with you for Dakota.par
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  2. MiryClay says:

    Tracy,

    I swear that you just described my Ashley. I know what you are going through, and I am sorry to say that I don't have an answer for you. I had a horrible day with Ash in school yesterday. Half of the time I think she's just being lazy, but then other times I wonder if there isn't some learning disability involved. I don't know. I do know that I pray a lot. I'm not a very fun and creative teacher. I think a lot of her problem is me. You're not the only one that has thought of the public school route. I really don't think she'd make it there though. At least she's getting a good biblical, moral upbringing. Hopefully a little of the academic part is sinking in too. I know that she is advanced compared to her cousins who attend the public schools. This is what keeps mine at home. You are probably doing a lot better than you think. Be encouraged and know that I am praying with you for Dakota.

    Love,
    Lori

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